Case 528

Depression / Anxiety / Panic, Parental Responsibility, Singleness / Solitude, Suicide/Suicide Attempt|

I am the single mother of a four-year-old daughter, and I live in my mother’s house.... Labor conditions in my country have kept me from getting a good job in spite of the fact that I am a professional.... What makes it more difficult is that I don’t have anyone to take care of my daughter, and day care centers are very expensive.... My daughter’s father helps a little when he feels like it. My [...]

Case 527

Illness|

I have a sexually transmitted disease that... doesn’t have a cure. It is difficult for me to consider getting married in the future... because I don’t want it to be my fault for someone else to be harmed, and I also think it would be very hard to tell a potential wife about it. How can I deal with this? What can I think about that would encourage me? Dear Friend, We are very sorry [...]

Case 526

Jealousy / Envy, Lying|

I have been married for twenty-nine years. Three years ago, a woman lied to my husband and told him that I was having an affair with her boyfriend. Since then he mistreats me and verbally abuses me. I feel like I don’t love him anymore, and I want him to leave, but he won’t do it. He says that he loves me, but he makes my life impossible.... He also consulted a witch who told [...]

Case 525

Cohabitation, Jealousy / Envy|

For the past two years I’ve been living with a man who is fourteen years older than I am. He has two children from two different relationships.... Since the beginning of our relationship, he has had a password on his phone. I told him many times that I didn’t like that, and that as a couple we should have nothing to hide. One time he was careless, and I read messages from his ex during [...]

Case 524

Marriage (Adultery/Infidelity), Social Media/Internet|

About two months ago I was unfaithful to my wife on social media. I chatted with two women about how bad my wife was to me, and how sad and empty my life was by her side. All of it was based on lies, because things weren’t really like that. I also... talked to another woman about intimate sexual matters.... My wife found out about all of it, put me out of the house, and [...]

Case 523

Depression / Anxiety / Panic|

About two months ago I began to feel badly, and I wasn’t able to sleep well after that. Then I started having horrible thoughts about God and other people.... I don’t know why. I also worry about what will happen tomorrow. I ask God to change me, but every day I feel like I’m going from bad to worse. I feel terrible, and have pain, doubt, and thoughts that torment me. Dear Friend, We are [...]

Case 522

Adolescents (Discipline/Instruction/Care), Cohabitation|

I have a son who is fifteen and who went to live with my parents. He doesn’t get along with the man who I live with and with whom I have a three-year-old daughter. My boyfriend doesn’t love my son nor my parents, and he speaks of them in an ugly way. I decided to leave him, but he has asked me to return. I don’t know what to do, because my son is so [...]

Case 521

Guilt|

Ever since I was in the eighth grade in school I have had bad thoughts that bother me a lot. Vulgar and offensive words have been stuck in my mind, and lately they have gotten worse. I have begun to have bad thoughts about my parents, whom I love.... I ask God every day to forgive me for that, but I don’t get any answer. I can’t even read the Bible in peace because these [...]

Case 520

Cohabitation, Family, Step-parents|

I am thirty-six years old, and I decided to have a relationship with a single mother of three daughters. The big problem is that she is very permissive with the girls, and they don’t know how to do household chores. I have to do the washing, the cooking, and other things. Also, my girlfriend has a mother, along with a brother, who meddle in everything and come to the house all the time. They often [...]