Case 60
A few years ago I divorced my husband because he is an alcoholic.... For two years we didn’t see each other, but then I agreed to allow him to exercise his legal right to visit our small daughter in the house where she and I live. I work very hard to support her because he keeps drinking and can’t keep a job. He comes very drunk, raises a ruckus, and batters and offends us. He [...]
Case 59
I have a six‑year-old son who is very bright and extroverted.... He always asks me for money, but I hardly ever give him any (only when I can). He recently came home from school eating some ice cream, and I knew I hadn’t given him any money to buy it.... I checked his pockets and, to my great surprise, he had some money in them.... After telling me several lies, he confessed that he had [...]
Case 58
About eight months ago I got a new job. I am the bookkeeper for a small business. The owner orders me to do things that are illegal, like change the amount of taxes that he owes and falsify the hours of the employees. Ever since I have been doing this, I have not had any peace. I feel very bad because I am robbing the state and failing God at the same time. I always [...]
Case 57
A woman came to my house and gave me her three‑day‑old baby. My husband and I accepted the baby with high hopes, because until then we had not been able to have any biological children. Six months later, I became pregnant and was very happy... but when our daughter was born, my in‑laws began to play favorites between our daughters, and that made my husband and me argue a lot. Finally I got a divorce. [...]
Case 56
I am about seventy‑five pounds overweight. My life is a disaster. I don’t go out of the house. My children beg me to take them out, and I tell them no, that they are crazy if they think I’m going out looking like this. I don’t pick them up at school because I don’t want the other mothers to tell me that I am getting fatter all the time. I can’t stand the criticism. More [...]
Case 55
My husband and I are a young couple. He is twenty-six years old and I am twenty-three. We have been married for six years and have two daughters. The problem that we have in our marriage is my father. He won’t let us make our own decisions. Instead, he ends up making them for us. I am an only child, and I think that he does it because he is afraid that we will make [...]
Case 54
My wife and I have been married for eighteen months and I am very confused.... I don’t understand why my wife has absolute control of the money that we both earn.... It bothers me a lot because we both work. Sometimes I think it was a mistake to have gotten married. The truth is that I am very confused. Please help me. Dear Friend, We are glad that you have told us your story because [...]
Case 53
After ten years, my daughters (ages ten and fifteen) and I left our homeland to live together with my husband (their father). My husband and I had agreed that it was best to live apart during those ten years so he could work in a foreign country, losing our family unity as a result.... Now neither my daughters nor I want to live here, because everything is so different. We want to go back to [...]
Case 52
Ever since I had my daughter, I have felt a lot of anxiety. Sometimes I get up in the morning ready to do a million things, other times I don’t want to do anything; but the worst thing I feel is a lot of fear of what is going on and of dying.... I know that I should accept the fact that I’m going to die some day; but I don’t know how to accept [...]