Case 644
I am in a relationship with a fifty-four-year-old man. Several months have passed, and he is trying to convince me that it is normal to have sexual relations. I have told him that I think they are important, but only in a stable marriage relationship. He doesn’t want to get married because he says times are bad and he doesn’t want to face potentially bad repercussions. He says that if I won’t have sex with [...]
Case 643
I can’t stop thinking about something that bothers me and scares me to death. I have always wondered about eternity, and if sometime after death, once we’re in heaven, God will destroy us. It feels like He created us for a finite time period and, after that time is over, He will discard us. It may be a rather dumb thought, but it seriously affects me to keep thinking about this. Dear Friend, You are [...]
Case 642
A year ago, my boyfriend and I started dating, and we now have plans to get married. I love him a lot, and he has shown me that he loves me too.... We have not been physically intimate, but I have a lot of thoughts about what it will be like after we are married and do have physical relations.... I am a shameful person, and feel very guilty about it! ... My boyfriend doesn’t [...]
Case 641
My wife has always been jealous and distrustful.... One day, tired and frustrated by her mistrust and constant jealousy, I gave in and got involved with a woman at work. I wasn’t unfaithful to my wife, but it all came to light because that woman was so wicked that she contacted my wife and accused me of having harassed her. I love my wife and my family, but my wife can’t regain her trust in [...]
Case 640
About eight months ago, my wife started treating me and our small daughter differently. Then, a month ago, someone sent me emails with indecent photos of my wife and a video in which she was unfaithful to me with several men who work with her. I haven’t said anything until now because I am concerned about our daughter, but I can’t stand it anymore. Tell me what I should do. I don’t want to cause [...]
Case 639
I got married eleven years ago.... We have a nine-year-old son.... Recently I found out that my husband has a seven-month-old baby girl with another woman.... I decided to forgive him. He says he doesn’t have anything to do with the mother of that baby girl anymore. However, I don’t know how to get over this. I don’t know how to get past the sadness and pain. I have had three miscarriages, and I can’t [...]
Case 638
I fell in love with a sixteen-year-old girl. For more than a year I have been trying to start a relationship with her. The problem is that she could be my daughter, because I am thirty-four years old. My actions have shown her that I am concerned about her well-being. She wanted a cell phone, so I gave her one. Her bedroom was in bad shape, and I fixed it up for her, even adding [...]
Case 637
I am in a relationship with a guy... but six months ago I discovered messages with his best friend in which they were sending each other photos in a way that was very strange to me, and the friend referred to my boyfriend as a pretty boy. And one time when the three of us were together, the friend told me that my boyfriend was his, and that he came first, before me. I confronted [...]
Case 636
I have been married for three years. My wife already had a daughter from a past relationship. I don’t have any children. Before my mother met my wife, she made a comment saying that a woman with a child from another man is not acceptable. I told my wife, and now, three years later, she keeps bringing it up and hates my mother passionately. She frequently says terrible things about my mother. What can I [...]